Tuesday, 23 February 2010

♥ ansuran/installment..

so far we have paid half of the agreed fee for 1) photographer for nikah and sanding, 2) pelamin nikah+pelamin dewan+deco dewan and 3) sudah habis bayar bekas favor telor.. ini yg agak besar la for us..

pasal saya pun takde banyak saving, adlie need to pay for hantaran, plus belanja his side lagi.. yg dah bayar pun kat atas baru half.. pening dibuatnya nak bayar the rest of it.. but atleast the burden is trimmed lil bit and manageable towards the big day.. and soon caterer, half payment to be paid by middle of end of March (must do) and bajus bajus for sanding still dalam pencarian.. yang besar2 hampir sudah.. so now i need to worry bout baju and yg ntah ape2 yang lain lain kecik2..

disclaimer : cuma nak berkongsi, takde niat lain.. ive been meaning to write about installment or ansuran.. most of vendors that we (saya dan adlie) have met before hampir semuanya boleh buat installment, regardless vendor with big name or small name, sangat extreme where u can actually engage a monthly installment, they accept small amount, sampailah habis byr, sofar yg penah jumpa famous photographer, pelamin and deco, designer pengantin dress and attire, almost semualah.. mereka ada yg memahami, bukan semua org mampu, tak semua org boleh afford big name vendor, jadi mereka sendiri yg suggest u buat installment, agaknya dah kesian tgk, hehe.. tho ada instalment package from designer saya masih tak amik, sb tak mampu, but yes we did this method, installment, pasal mmg kitorang tak boleh bayar sekaligus, we stagger the payment, dan it turn nicely.. sebab boleh manage duit tu elok2..

so let say my dear silent reader, yang baru planning2, say u have a year ke, one and half year this is the perfect time to start listing down ur dream vendor, its never to early to start, go meet them, kalau dah tersuka sangat but agak2 takleh nak bayar segedebuk, arrange for installment and this kinda method is applicable when ure planning to engage BIG & HUGE name with an EXPENSIVE TAG.. say u wanted to settle down with oh soo famous and brilliant photographer but the cost is to much to bear.. sometimes kita boleh adakan budget for that when we have ample time, cuma bila plan lambat all the amount sum for everything become soo overwhelms. ofcos they will cost u a fortune but via installment ull splurge with it in the end.. pasti suka kan.. and if really ure going for installment make sure u have with u the receipt, keep it safe incase anything happen soon u have the proof.. keep in touch..

semua org nak the best vendor, sometimes kita rasa kita tak ada budget so on so forth, but i believe once u started the listing and have the actual meeting with vendor u can actually have them for your wedding.. so hope this helps, i have silent readers which i dont actually know how to help them rather than displaying all my preps and such.. =)

satu benda lagi, jangan kisah kalau diri sendiri bayar ke your mak bapak bayar ke, if u paid everything urself sangat sangat bagus, alhamdulillah tak menyusahkan parents, malah membahagiakan diorang lagi kan, =) but dont ever start to hear what people say, kalau dengar buat bernanah telinga je, kalau mak bapak choose to bayar all or some or camnelah its okay cos they love you, they wanna help you and wanted the best for your wedding, kalau ada anak nanti pasti u guys do the same kan? whatever the arrangement is all yours, our life is not the same, some parents afford to spent gazalion tremendously for u, some will help u partially as much as they can, some are not at all but they re ur backbone, they always support you (most important), shower you with love, jadi bersyukur & bersyukurlah dengan apa yg kita ada.. bahagian masing masing, be happy with what we have and be happy for people around us.. insya Allah ull feel content..

butterlymini theres always a way for everything that we want, if we are meant to have it we will have it.. if not we may have sometimes else greater later.. =)

22 love notes:

casper said...

have to agree with you nurul regarding the last paragraph.
Sometimes our parents would do the best for us, regardless anything.tapi yang paling penting they are there to watch us.

Mimy Hamid said...

installment pun ok je..me too installment from now...

NahWaL said...

bab bapak bapak tu aku suke. wahahahaha.

BuNGaKRiSTaL said...

hey awak... thanks 4 da info... actually sya x t'fikir pn bole bayar cara ansuran ni... sbb x pernah tau... anyway, thank you so much! :)

diri aku said...

rasanya entry huda yg ni plg best, mcm menyentuh perasaan plak, lg lg bab parents.thnx dear. sumtimes ppl ske ckp2 mcm2 yg wat kte rse down kan. =D ppe pun semoga misi u berjaya okeh! gambate neh!

Ami Schaheera said...

sob sob sob, rasa nak nangis plak baca ni tiba2. truth is betul jugak apa yg u cakap tu, i x pernah terpikir plak psl installment kan.. good idea :)

elyina said...

i pun jumpe vendors yang bleh wat installment.tapi better bayar sket2 before wedding daripada after weddingkan..bak kata pepatah..biar susah2 dahulu, senang2 kemudian..hehe

syanaim said...

::i setuju babe..hurmm..everything expensive now..ayark..tp i rasa puas hati everything kita jer yg byr..:D::

azian abdullah said...

da..sedih baca entry u yang ni. haah kan, mak bapak walau macam manapun, mesti nak jugak dorang menyumbang sama. tak banyak sikit. dan, betul eh ade vendors yg bagi buat installment/ansuran bagai. serius tak tau...menyenangkan pengantin kan.

NURUL said...

nak kawin mmg kena guna byk duit kan?

Yanie said...

Dear... Thanks for sharing.... By the way...Tapi, kita memang leh try mintak ek bayar installment?

Ryehanna said...

haihh... sebut bab duit mmg pening kepala.. lagi2 bajet xbanyak... balik kampung baru ni dah settle bab pelamin n baju sume... tp belah pompuan jela. belah lelaki xtau lg camne..

ikut pilihan mak je walaupun pelamin simple and outdated. malehhhh dah nak cari cos takde mase! huhu...

xpelah.. asal dpt kahwin. :D

Lilee▲ said...

pretty blog!!!

[ naim | fira ] said...

salam kak nurul, saya silent reader akak..lame dh slalu baca blog akak, tp xpnh tggl komen
nice entry akak..keep it up!
hope saya dapat jadikan guideline untuk saya juga..eheehhe

good luck for ur wedding preparation..
:)
keep in touch eh..

p/s: nnt nak link blog akak dlm blog saya bleh?

Nurulhuda|Adlie said...

cass, tu dari hati ke hati cakap, hehe sendiri pun rasa sedih, parents kan always wanted the best for u.. =)

mimy, installment is good, especially bila nak kawin, bayar 2 3 kali pun ok, asal taklah bayar sekali tapi banyak terus..

nawal, hehe.. yelah big sponsor kan kan? itu maksud ko kan? hehe..

bunga, kitorang pun masa pegi2 jumpa vendor, sb banyak juga pegi, dari yg sefemes2 vendor ke yg takde nama, so ada la info, insya Allah diorang salunya faham keadaan kita nak kawin banyak pakai duit kan..

Nurulhuda|Adlie said...

june, i try kongsi ape yg ada, yg faham bride to be ialah bride to be jugak.. org lain takkan paham ape yg kita rasa.. =) hehe.. aah bab parents i tak boleh compromise sangat, kdg2 rasa sedih especially bila parents kita tak berkira dgn kita, tapi org yg bercakap2.. biarkan saje..

ami, sedih kan.. i rasa sedih gak masa tulis tu, yelah mcm mana pun parents mesti wat terbaik untuk kita, kalau bukan bg duit diorang bg support.. kan.. installment ni superb kalau nak guna vendor yg mahal, cara tu salah satu untuk kita dapatkan jugak ape yg kita nak! hehe..

elyina, aah elok instalment before wedding, tinggalkan portion yg kita agak2 boleh bayar masa dah sampai hari tu.. so takdelah terasa sangat nak kuar duit..

sya, aah lagi2 kl, 1k guest 10k, kalau luar kl ada yg boleh dapat 2k guest 10k(my friend) so kene pandai2 manage expenses.. aah kalau kita bayar semua tak menyusahkan parents, but for me there will be few part yg parents tolong, its not like owing them but more like a gift from them.. =)

Nurulhuda|Adlie said...

azian, aah sikit banyak, parents kan, kalau i ada anak pun i buat mcm ni, apetah lagi mak bapak kita kan.. aah boleh buat installment, janji kene communicate lah, sebab kita pun bukan la tak mampu, mampu tu mampu tapi bukan la sekaligus bayar kan..

nurul, mmg betul tu, silap2 boleh muflis, hehe.. thats why kene banyak moderate, life after wedding pun kene fikir.. thats the beginning of a lifetime journey.. weee tak sabar lak..

yanie, boleh, cuba kalau jumpa any vendor kan tanya2, so far lah, i penah pegi banyak vendor, mmg boleh buat, 2 3 kali payment contohnya, kalau nak tau vendor email i la ek, tak nak disclose kang kene saman, hehe..

rye, kawin ni mmg terlalu banyak pakai duit, tapi tu lah paling tak pun kita nak yg terbaik kan, insya Allah kawin sekali.. aah rye dah settle pelamin sume kan.. takpe belah laki biar cc buat, hehe.. simple ok rye, tgk lagi 10 15 tahun pun masih releven.. yes, satu yg penting, asal selamat kawin.. =)

lillea, thanks, ur are great too.. and soo chic.. tq for dropping by..

fira, tu la sis tgk ramai je visitor, tp yg komen sikit je, tgh cari2 cara nak suruh yg silent ni komen, boleh kenal2 kan.. lama dah sis simpan entry ni, berbelah bagi nak tulis, tau jelah kan tkt ada yg tak suka, tapi yg penting membantu, ape pun kalau usaha mesti dapat..

aah bila nak kawin? ntah2 fira kawin nanti dah takleh pakai dah tips kat sini, hehe.. boleh je link, ill link u too ek..

Sha Pattinson said...

bila nak kawin kita perlu banyak berkorban .. dan yang paling penting sebaiknye kita nak kawin baik guna duit sendiri ..barulah kita hargai perkahwinan kita ..btol tak?

~DiDiE~ said...

hey, do agree with u..x terfikir pon kan bleh buat installment..walaupun sy lmbt lg nak kawen..tp bile dh confirm tarikh 1 year before at least bleh bayar skit2 kan..menarik2..instead of simpan tiap2 bln..
i just followed ur blog..thanks ;)
salam maulidur rasul

Nurulhuda|Adlie said...

sha, mmg masa berkorban mcm2, soppin pun takleh!! sopping brg kawin jek, hehe.. aah better pakai duit sendiri, but to those yg ada kesulitan sana sini, and parents willing to help ape salahnya.. =)

didie, aah boleh kalau nak bayar sikit2, tapi ape2 pun discus dgn vendor, kalau tak nek bayar bulan2, bayar 2 3 kali installment pun okay.. mcm kalau satu ebnda tu myr1500, bayar myr500 3 kali pun just nice, sama2, salam maulidur rasul juga.. =)

/Joyful Juju said...

walaupun u tak knal i tp i tak kire, i nk link blog u jugak sbb byk bende yg i leh wat reference pasal kawen.(walaupun i kawen lambat lg, tahun depan.) i link ur blog keh? :)

awin hashim said...

hey..ur blog ni bg i idea n knowledge la..i suke!!!
good luck on the wedding!!